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Affluent Chinese families increasingly turn to “professional parents” – specially trained child companions who provide comprehensive care for their children

Affluent Chinese families increasingly turn to “professional parents” – specially trained child companions who provide comprehensive care for their children. These professionals, often recruited from prestigious institutions like Harvard and Cambridge, hold advanced degrees and possess a diverse skill set. They are paid handsomely, with monthly salaries ranging from Rs 1.17 lakh to Rs 3.52 lakh. Unlike conventional tutors or nannies, child companions become intimately involved in the daily routines and emotional development of the children they care for. They assist with homework, engage in sports, and address emotional needs. Song Siyu, a child companion from Chongqing, explains that her role goes far beyond that of a tutor or nanny.

The rise of this profession is driven by high-net-worth families who prioritize their careers and seek the best for their children. They often opt for child companions, over-relying on grandparents. However, the industry has criticisms, including a gender disparity, with “professional mums” outnumbering male counterparts. It is rooted in the traditional perception that child-rearing is a maternal responsibility. Experts caution against viewing child companions as replacements for genuine parental involvement, stressing the need for physical presence. A child’s healthy development requires the love and support of their parents. While child companions can provide valuable support, they should not substitute for parental care. The industry’s lack of regulatory oversight is also a concern, with many child companions hired directly through social media platforms.